Tuesday, December 15, 2009

Do you happen to know someone like this?

something to share with you guys.

i came across articles about manipulative behaviors which i found rather interesting.


It is very hard to know if one is a manipulative person. There are people who talk and act like very nice people and we cannot distinguish between their manipulative behaviors and their natural ways. People who want to manipulate others are often very nice people especially at the start. You would only come to know a manipulative person with your constant interaction.

traits:
- pretend to be incompetent, play the victim, act helpless, or admit too often that he or she is stupid.
- say “promise me” or act overly concerned.
- blame others for their problems.
- often act ignored, forgotten, hurt, wounded, unloved, or uncared for.
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act angry or throw temper tantrums.
- often
act depressed or suicidal.
- constantly repeating the question or request over and over again…in slightly different ways
- if that person doesn’t get his/her way, they make you out to look or feel like the bad guy

To get their way, manipulators will often make you feel good so that they can then ask you to do something that they want.

ahem..the statements speak for themselves
so i guess i'll leave it there...




p/s: i heart Daughtry's No Surprise so so much! <3
makes me feel like learning the electric guitar only! so yeng..

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