Monday, October 19, 2009

Something's pulling us apart

People DO change (for the worse)
another true yet sad...sad fact :(

last night i was looking through my msn chat history, and actually read some of them.
particularly conversation between me and...
erm, let's call this person "xxx"

me and xxx used to have so many things to talk about in msn, and in real life too, face-to-face.
eventhough we saw each other quite often, the topic we had can said to be endless. when we were together, we talked, we laughed, we played pranks at each others, we told each other stuff...etc..still in msn, we still can chat like we've never seen each other for ages!

however, i've suddenly came to realise..
these days me and xxx have lesser and lesser things to talk or share with each other..
it hit me.
i hate to admit that we're drifting apart.
i've no idea since when, but it's happening...
i always think that being busy is an excuse, a really lame one.
you MAKE time for people and things that you treasure and love

可能大家的生活圈子不同了
接触的人事物也不同
我觉得很可惜,真的很可惜...
我以为我们可以是很要好的朋友

now, the distance
the awkwardness
the memories
and most of all, the feeling of losing a real good friend...

sigh.

p/s: perhaps any form of relationship that succumbed to the pressure of time, distance, and some God-know-what factors...
wasn't that genuine after all.

5 gimme more:

TomXX said...

there're actually people in this world that checked their msn history??? ^^ dont emo lar~ aiyer~

Chen Yi said...

it's true but...

maybe, when u guys meet face to face again, all the feelings will come rushing back?

i think for some friendship you don't have to necessarily talk a lot or keep in touch all the time, but when u do contact each other again it will still be like the old times :]

chin up :) it's only as bad as u think it is :P

May said...

totally agree with chen yi..that is what i belief in~~sometimes we may not able to contact but i will feel happy and sweet especially during the period they come into my mind..
i have faith with my friends..haha..this is what im holding to!

lol...we haven't chat since years le...you haven't lost me~

hugz hugz~!~

Sue-zy said...

tomxx, i like to check ar, chui meh!

cyi and may, actually there are a few more of my friends who are just like the xxx i've mentioned...whom i was once closed with, but due to some factors, just drifted apart somehow.
but yea! i know some friendship doesnt need much talking and stuff..
心理相通 will do ya? hehee.. =D

TomXX said...

*blow*