Thursday, June 17, 2010

holding back

SOMETIMES, i have this tendency to hold back

(yes, i mean sometimes, not all the time)

things that i wanted to say..
sentences being arranged in my mind, prepared to blurt out, but at the very last moment. i kept them instead.

text that i wanted to send..
having the urge to text the person, typed them out..
at the very last minute, clear text without sending and that's it.

actions that i wanted to do..
should i do this? and that? hmm..
maybe better don't.

i tend to HESITATE.


sometimes i think i'm a rather impulsive kind of person but on the second thought, i'm not quite.
depending on situations

perhaps because i mind.
也许我很在意别人对我的看法
i mind and care how others think, about everything, include me.
now, i wonder is that a good point or a bad one? =/


3 gimme more:

justin k said...

It depends on what you were about to say or text. And it is always better to think hard before you speak or act.

I think this quote is more than befitting the situation:

"It is better to remain silent and be thought a fool, than to speak out and remove all doubt"

Jason said...

Hoho , well said from the friend above.

Sometimes you still have to remove all doubts because you wanted to have peace at heart

"Just do it !" -- Nike .

Is not entirely wrong. When in doubt, what ever decision made with sheer confidence alone will stand out in one way or the other.

Hack ! Dropping atomic bomb on Japan was cruel and doubtfully the right move, but people thank god for that because WW2 ended after that.

May said...

for me, is a good sign.
think before you speak as words spoken can never get withdrawn.
but,at times, maybe you don't have to hesitate to speak as your listener will not blame you for saying wrong things.