Betrayal

So i came across this chinese blog...
i'm sorry if you don't understand mandarin, but this article is really meaningful and it truly reflects how i feel...ask someone to translate for you if you really want to know the content =)
the title of the post is "朋友這花紅", the blogger is 張小嫻.
i can't agree more than this...

let me highlight some of the points:

"我常常想，會不會有人是從來沒有被朋友出賣過的呢？
要是你這麼幸運，也許是你太年輕了，要不就是你根本沒有朋友。

小小的出賣，誰都會遇過。

他在背後說你是非，把你的秘密到處張揚。你當時也許深深受到傷害。然而，到了後來，你會慶幸，他傷不了你，倒是讓你認清了他。
大大的出賣，諸如利用你的信任....不過，這也只能怪你自己有眼無珠吧？

被朋友出賣，就像失戀和失望，都是人生的一部分。它會讓我們茁壯成長。

你被出賣過，並不是從此不再相信朋友，而是更感激真心對你好的朋友。

被朋友大大小小的出賣，就跟失戀一樣，要是早晚會發生的話，早比遲好。
這樣你可以早一點了解人生，你也復原得比較快。
做人還是瀟灑一點的好。何況，這些小小的出賣並沒有把我打倒。我寧願帶著溫暖的友情走我的路，記著對我好的人，原諒那些曾經對我不好的朋友。他們和我一樣，也不過是凡人。

走的路愈長，你愈明白，朋友是一筆額外的花紅，得之我幸，不應該對朋友有太高的要求。

maybe i really have high expectation of friends, especially those i considered as close one... that was why i always got very frustrated when anyone of them annoyed me. But who am i to judge them? who knows that maybe i'm the one who is not qualify to be their friend?
Nobody is perfect.
so, pick up the pieces and move on...